If you’re longing for deeper intimacy and more romance in your life, try incorporating essential oil for massage. Here we’ll explore some of the more popular essential oils and explain why and how you can incorporate them into the bedroom. After all, pleasure is about more than just your sense of touch. Getting all your senses involved makes for a truly sensual experience.

Why Use Essential Oil for Massage

When inhaled or absorbed through your skin, essential oils stimulate your limbic system, those primal parts of your brain associated with emotions and instinct.

Plus, essential oils help release “feel good” hormones like serotonin and endorphins to produce an alluring aphrodisiac effect. Essential oils can calm your nervous system, improve your mood, increase blood circulation, and entice the senses to turn you on and enhance your pleasure.

Best Essential Oils for Love and Romance

But, which essential oils are best when it comes to love and romance?

Here, we’re sharing some of our favourite ingredients to look for in your natural body oils and lubricants. Get ready… things are about the heat up in the bedroom!


Ylang ylang is the ultimate essential oil for love. This ancient aphrodisiac offers an uplifting quality while relaxing the body, slowing the heart rate, and improving your mood.

Did you know? Flowers from the ylang ylang tree are traditionally used to adorn the wedding bed of newly married couples for their aphrodisiac benefits.

Use ylang ylang to create an all-over sensory experience for you and your partner to melt into one another and explore your deepest desires.

Try our Wildfire Black pleasure oil infused with ylang ylang, it’s perfect for sensual massage.


Patchouli offers tension relief, soothes inflammation, and stimulates your libido. It also lifts your mood and promotes relaxation, making it the perfect essential oil for romance and passion.

Its exotic scent is sensual and alluring, making it the perfect essential oil for massage oils. Not only is it romantic but it also heightens sensual awareness. Long story short, it’ll stimulate your senses and put you in the mood.


ROSE Geranium

Rose Geranium is another essential oil for love that’ll boost your
libido and prepare your body and mind for intimacy. But rose geranium essential oils can do even more than that.

Intensely hydrating and with anti-inflammatory properties it’s ideal for dry skin, rose geranium leaves you feeling soft and luxurious and acts as the perfect natural lubricant.

So, whether you’re a woman over 40 dealing with menopausal vaginal dryness or your skin tends to get particularly scaly in the winter, rose geranium-infused body oils might be exactly what you’re looking for.

Wildfire Enhance Her is infused with rose geranium essential oil, which makes it an ideal choice if you’re looking for natural relief for menopausal dryness.


Most of us know and love lavender essential oil, but it’s worth a mention when it comes sparking more romance in your life. Its soothing, relaxing qualities are key to helping you open up and sink into pure bliss.

Whether you’re indulging your partner in a relaxing massage after a stressful week at work or you’re simply practising some intimate self-care on your own, lavender essential oil is a special ingredient to look for in your skin oils and natural lubricants. 

For pure pleasure, try our Wildfire Original pleasure oil infused with lavender; it’s the ultimate relaxing massage oil.

Our premium intimacy oils are curated with combinations of these aphrodisiac essential oils. Some are more intense, others are seductively subtle, and all can transform your love life for the better. Shop our complete collection of all-natural pleasure oils to get in the mood.

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