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Foreplay Your Way

Foreplay - Your Way

Ready to take your love life to the next level? Then you need to check out our foreplay tips! Creating an atmosphere of arousal is essential for “setting the mood” and taking your time together to a whole new level. Now, while “quickies” have their time and place, couples who regularly neglect the art of foreplay are missing out on a vital building block to intimacy and connection. From sensual massages to playful games, we’ll help you explore each other in new and exciting ways. So what are you waiting for? Get ready to heat things up with our foreplay tips!


Why foreplay is so important

Let’s talk about the good stuff – foreplay tips! Proceptive behaviours might sound like a mouthful, but it’s just a fancy term for all the fun stuff we do to get in the mood – flirting, seduction, and of course, foreplay! And guess what? According to the fabulous Dr. Debra Herbenick, MPH, and director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, foreplay can seriously up the pleasure factor during sex! So, let’s get ready to turn up the heat with some awesome foreplay tips!


“When a woman’s body becomes aroused, the vaginal muscles pull the uterus up a bit, making more room in the vagina…if this doesn’t happen, sex may be uncomfortable for a woman.” Says Herbenick.

Not only does foreplay make sex more pleasurable, but research also suggests that a mere 10 minutes of foreplay led 40% of women to orgasm during intercourse. Yes, that’s right, 40%. That percentage rose significantly with the amount of time dedicated to said foreplay; with 60% of women reaching climax with 20+ minutes dedicated to the connective art.

Ultimately, foreplay can help a couple feel closer and more intimate, which generally leads to both partners feeling more aroused.

Foreplay is "about building an emotional connection
and getting some excitement going”
says Herbenick. 

Foreplay tips that will drive your partner wild


In order to be able to better connect with your partner, foreplay requires elements of communication – verbal and physical, expression of emotions, and consideration of time, place, and self. 

Now foreplay is different for everyone, but here are some helpful foreplay tips to create the ultimate state of arousal for you and your partner.  


First and foremost – communication. Both in and out of the bedroom. It’s important for each partner to gauge an understanding of what works for each individual — this is best communicated out of the bedroom as a starting point. You can’t know what someone likes without asking, nor will they know what you like. Be open… let the communication flow. 

Sex games

Who said foreplay had to be serious? Let’s add a little playful spice to your sex life with a saucy sex game! Not only is it a fun way to break the ice, but it’s also a great way to explore new ideas and fantasies you may not have considered before.

There are plenty of options to choose from when it comes to sex games, from classic favorites like strip poker to more creative games that will have you laughing and blushing at the same time. You can even make up your own game, tailored to your unique desires and preferences. The possibilities are endless!

Dirty talk

Dirty talk, oh yes, the ultimate way to spice up any foreplay session! If you’ve never tried it before, now is the time to take the plunge and discover just how sexy and liberating it can be.

The key to successful dirty talk is to start slow and build up gradually. Don’t worry about being a pro, just let your partner know how you feel and what you want to do to them. It’s all about exploring each other’s desires and finding out what turns you both on. From whispering sweet nothings in their ear to getting down and dirty with some raunchy language, the choice is yours.

But why stop at words? Let your body language do the talking too! A sultry stare, a playful nibble, or a suggestive gesture can go a long way in turning up the heat and creating an irresistible atmosphere of desire and passion.

So don’t be afraid to get a little naughty and unleash your wild side. Dirty talk is just one of the many ways to explore your sexuality and take your foreplay game to the next level. So go ahead, give it a try, and see where it takes you!

Tantric massage

It’s time to let your hands do the talking and embark on a journey of sensual discovery and pleasure together. Yoni massage, a form of tantric sexual practice that involves massaging the vagina, is a beautiful and sensual way to deepen intimacy and pleasure with your partner. By exploring the body slowly and sensually, this practice can help guide women to reach climax and experience heightened states of pleasure and relaxation. 

If you’re curious about trying something new in your foreplay routine, yoni massage may just be the perfect addition. With its soft and loving approach to touch, this practice can enhance connection and intimacy between partners, while also opening up new avenues for exploration and pleasure. 

So why not add yoni massage to your sensual repertoire and see where the journey takes you? With an open mind and a willingness to explore, this beautiful and transformative practice can help take your foreplay to the next level.


The power of gentle touch is incredibly underrated. Something until recently, I had long forgotten about… A soft kiss on the nape of the neck, a single finger tracing the skin of your lower back… a hand gliding between your inner thighs followed by lips teasing long after… Now if you want to get backs arching — gentle touch followed by teasing is the ultimate form of foreplayImplement this with sensual/yoni massage and erotic oils and you’re en route to one incredible state of arousal… 


Are you ready to spice up your foreplay game? Well, get ready to be seduced by the power of scent! When it comes to getting in the mood, scent is the secret weapon you’ve been missing. Unlike any other sense, scent goes straight to the limbic system in your brain, which is responsible for all things emotions and memories. So why not use it to your advantage to create a night you’ll never forget?

At Wildfire, we’ve got an array of scents that’ll make you want to relive your favorite intimate moments over and over again. Each of our aphrodisiac essential oils is carefully crafted with a unique and specific recipe to help enhance your mood and desires, no matter the time of day. Trust us, you’ll want to make sure you’ve got a good few hours ahead of you!

So, whether you’re planning on a steamy night in or an early morning rendezvous, our scents are sure to set the tone for a mind-blowing foreplay experience. From sweet and sensual to spicy and mysterious, each scent has been specially designed to make your senses come alive. So, what are you waiting for? Let’s get started on exploring our collection and finding the perfect scent to ignite your passion!


Tempts exotic, warming, and uplifting blend of aromatic essential oils will not only re-energise your drive. 

Its powerful sensual aroma, will also awaken your inner passion and push you to explore each other in ways you’ve never experienced before.


Tease is an irresistible and alluring blend intended to have a calming, yet revitalising influence. 

The rich blend of Lavender and Ylang Ylang essential oils Instills calmness and relaxation. With teasing hints of Rose Geranium and Sandalwood to inspire romance and increased sexual desire.


Tantalize with a sweet Ylang Ylang and the woody and exotic tones of Sandalwood, this intense essential oil blend relaxes and inspires a real sense of letting go and enjoying the moment.

Sex Oils

If you’re looking to add a little extra sizzle to your foreplay routine, consider incorporating some sex oils into the mix. But what is it about a sex oil that makes it so great? Well, the right oil can be a game-changer, heightening your senses and increasing your desire for pleasure. It’ll bring out your desires, and increase sensations and satisfaction. Are you ready to add some sizzle to your sex life? 

Great, let’s talk about the best sexual oils, the ones that will have you feeling so turned on, you won’t be able to keep your hands off yourself (or your partner!). From sweet and floral to spicy and bold, there’s an oil out there that will speak to your unique desires and preferences. And when you find the one that ignites your senses, get ready for an unforgettable experience. Your skin will be hot to the touch, your senses will be heightened, and your lust for your partner will be off the charts. So why not indulge in a little experimentation and discover a whole new level of pleasure and satisfaction? You might just discover a whole new level of pleasure and satisfaction!

Take Your Foreplay Game to the Next Level with Wildfire Oil!

Now that you’ve got all the inside scoop on foreplay, it’s time to take things up a notch! Want to know the secret to igniting your desires? It’s all in the oil, baby! Our range of sexual oils will have you eager to explore your body and discover new sensations. Whether you’re indulging in some solo play or getting frisky with a partner, Wildfire Oil is the perfect way to set the mood for an unforgettable experience. So, what are you waiting for? Get your hands on our products and let the wild sparks fly!