The Secret Recipe: A Three-Course Guide to the Female Orgasm

There’s no secret recipe for the female orgasm, but there are a few things that can help increase your chances of achieving one. Listen to us—we know a thing or two about the best recipe to reach the female orgasm, and here are some of our best tips.

Whether with your partner or going solo, this will surely leave you satisfied with the result. As an extra addition to our female orgasm guide, we recommend you introduce our Cooling Arousal Oil. Feel free to use it throughout every stage of this experience.

1. Entrée - Foreplay Techniques to Spark Clitoral and G-Spot Arousal

When choosing an entrée to accompany the main, we want something light enough to get us in the mood but with just the right flavours to make us beg for more. When starting to stimulate yourself or your partner, begin at the nape of the neck and slowly make your way down, outlining every curve and sensitive spot you can find. This is your chance to bring out the arousal oil and begin to apply it to the clitoris.

There are many different erogenous zones for each individual. It’s your challenge to find out where they are. If clothing is part of this entree, now is the time to remove it and enjoy what is underneath.

2. Main Course - Mastering Clitoral Stimulation and G-Spot Orgasm

You’re not alone if you find it difficult, even impossible, to climax from direct stimulation alone. The truth is that most people with vulvas cannot achieve orgasm via vaginal penetration alone—so let’s focus on stimulating both the clitoris and the G-spot for maximum pleasure. If you haven’t experienced a climax in a while our arousal oils are here to awaken your nerve endings and increase blood flow.

Now that you’ve discovered some of your or your partner’s pleasure zones, it’s helpful to understand what you’re working with, so here’s a little explanation.

The Clitoris: Key to Female Pleasure

Although some have claimed not to find this highly sensitive organ, it’s not that difficult to locate. The clitoris, with its concentration of approximately 8,000 nerve endings, can be found near the top of the vulva, covered by a small “clitoral hood.”. The clitoral hood protects this area from overstimulation, so you may need a bit of gentle persuasion, either with your tongue or touch, to reveal the clitoris. For more information on the clitoris and its role in sexual pleasure, visit the Cleveland Clinic. Once aroused, it becomes erect, and signs like a subtle arch of the back or a moan will let you know you’ve hit the spot.

The G-spot: Finding Your Pleasure Zone

After stimulating the clitoris, move on to exploring inside the vagina. You’ll find the G-spot about two inches up from the pubic bone on the inner, upper wall of the vagina. Activation is as simple as gently sliding your finger or fingers inside with your palm facing up, then curling your finger to apply pressure.

Remember, preferences vary, so it’s best to communicate with your partner to find out what they enjoy, as some may prefer a lighter touch on this sensitive area.

3. Dessert - The Ultimate Clitoral and G-spot stimulation

If you’ve made it this far, you know we’re here to help you achieve the female orgasm.

Given that you’ve taken a note or two, you might have guessed that dessert is all about providing maximum stimulation to the clitoris, the G-spot, or both!

Choose your favourite position, or indulge in all three:

Sweet Seduction: The Riding Position for Ultimate G-Spot Pleasure

This position allows for excellent G-spot stimulation due to the angle of penetration. A helpful tip: Grab your partner’s hips to guide the rhythm and speed that you both desire.

Delicious Doggy Style: Enhancing G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulation

While not the best for clitoral stimulation, this position is fantastic for G-spot access. Make it even better by reaching around to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.

Intimate Indulgence: Sitting a Dual-Stimulation Position

Possibly the most intimate of the three, this position allows for deep penetration, stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot. The closeness it offers enhances the overall intimate experience.

A Final Thought on Reaching Orgasm

If you’ve reached orgasm, congratulations! We hope our oils enhanced your experience. If you’re still exploring your full potential, don’t hesitate to ask your partner for feedback or consult a sex therapist or healthcare provider. Achieving the female orgasm may require some trial and error, but remember to enjoy the journey. Your sex life will thank you.